A few months ago I was diagnosed with systemic inflammatory response syndrome (SIRS). Something the Dr said, if I didn't get under control, would eventually kill me. I haven't really shared much about it because, needless to say, the news kind of hit hard. Especially since I live a pretty healthy lifestyle.
I knew things were off in my body. I felt like it was giving out on me and couldn't figure out exactly why. So I found a functional medicine dr who also happens to be an herbalist. Thankfully he's one to get to the root of the cause and not just prescribe meds, which is what I was looking for, because let's face it, I wasn't about to fill my body with meds for symptoms.
I've been doing a lot of research and learning about systemic inflammation since then. What I've learned is this. So many things can set off an inflammatory response. Our bodies are supposed to react this way to aid in healing. But it can easily get out of control. And when it does, it can be the cause for so many diseases. (Oh, and my root causes? Mold and long covid.)
Health is so so important to me. And it's time to step up my holistic game. So here are some changes I've made and I will continue to make changes as I learn more.
*I'm eating a mostly Mediterranean diet. So many benefits, including anti-inflammatory.
*I'm loading up on healthy, natural supplements.
*I've tested to find what foods may be wreaking havoc on my body and paying attention to how they affect me when I eat them.
*I've given up my nightly glass of wine.
*I've switched to a 0% antiperspirant deodorant. If you didn't know, antiperspirants clog your pores and keep your body from properly releasing toxins.
*While I've used a natural cleaner in my home for years, I'm learning more about hidden toxic chemicals (like in makeup, and contacts, and who knows what else) so I can make changes where needed.
Things I'm continuing to do:
*I'm moving my body daily, usually with yoga but occasionally throw in other low-impact options.
*I'm continuing to eat clean but do allow the occasional treat (usually involves bread, eggs, or red meat) without beating myself up over it, also taking notice to how I feel afterward. So let's just say, I'm continuing with mindful eating.
*I choose natural cleaning products and do my best to avoid toxic chemicals in my home.
*I give myself continuous pep talks and remind myself of all the things I can do, not allowing myself to sink into the hole of what I can't.
So many things are out of our control. It's so important to recognize where you can and then do it. Our bodies are the only place we HAVE to live. Don't you think we owe ourselves the respect to make it a healthy home to be in?
I’ve been revamping my website and while doing so, started thinking about my journey and how it has brought me to where I am today. How it brought me to becoming a Holistic Life Coach. So I figured, if I’m revamping my site, might as well also bring my blog back to life. And what better way to start than to share my journey. So, here we go! (And it’s going to be a long one, y’all. So bear with me.)
I suppose you could say it began when I decided to go into psychology, although I had no idea this is the road it would eventually lead me down.I’ve always had a heart for helping others. (I blame my parents and upbringing for that.) Learning how the mind works and why we do the things, and ways to help work through those things seemed the logical way to go. It took me several years, as a working single mom, to complete my degree. But I did it! Now what?
I started out in an Intervention Behavior Program at a middle school, working in an Autism specific classroom. Then moved onto working with a counseling service based at a small town school where I helped kiddos dealing with neglect, abuse, and mental health. Next up was a mental health hospital where I worked with people of all ages, young kids all the way to adults. My home unit, and happy place, was the adolescent unit. I know, I’m crazy. I’ve spent over 15 years, now, in the mental and behavioral health field. Through these jobs, I’ve learned to truly see a person for who they were. It’s been my job to offer a safe place, to truly listen to another’s needs and pay attention to their thinking process. It’s been my job to teach coping and life skills to help when they went back out into the real world. It’s been my job to look at the why and help guide them to a better, happier story. Talk about pressure! But I’ve truly loved it.
My journey continued to slowly move me in a holistic direction through my own personal life. My dad passed away in 2015. He was sick for years. I mean years. I think we tracked it back about 20 years before he passed. He gradually, oh so gradually, went downhill. I don’t really remember how it started. Maybe with his fibromyalgia diagnosis? I honestly don’t remember. I just know my very active (high school star athlete active) dad eventually became sedentary and unable to even walk by the time he passed. We never got any real diagnosis but I’m willing to bet that all the medications (I’m talking pages of medications my mom had to keep to keep up with it all) and lack of a healthy diet played a very large role. He did what he knew to do, there were just so many unanswered questions and we were all learning as we went. He wanted us to somehow use his experience to help others avoid the same path. (My dad was seriously amazing, y’all. And thinking of others up to his very last breath.) We all took that to heart. And this is when I purposely set out on a journey, even though I still didn't quite realize where it was leading me.
Onto even more personal life happenings. The first half of my adult life found me in a string of toxic, abusive relationships. It wasn’t until 2016 I started to really hear what a family friend and counselor had said to me a few years prior. “You have to figure out why you’re drawn to these abusive men.” Me? Abusive men? Why I would never! Until I realize I had, yet again. (I’ll address all of this further in another blog. Or maybe a book. Because I could seriously write one.) I took these words to heart. Finally. And I started working on me. I’d sit with myself for long periods of time, self-reflecting. I dug into personal development, started eating right, and working out. I learned to love me again. It truly saved my life. And I can say, toxicity of any kind is no longer allowed in my life.
Then came my health problems. I have lived with fibromyalgia myself since I was 19. I learned early on to listen to my body and always did well managing without meds. Then in 2018 I took a fall while playing volleyball. I landed, but my feet didn’t. Still not sure what happened there. But to this day I still struggle with hip issues because of it. I have also recently been diagnosed with long haulers and mold illness. I am choosing to treat everything holistically and working with a functional medicine dr/herbalist to do that.
And now here we are! All of this has led me to a love and passion I didn’t know existed. It’s led me to pursuing certifications as a yoga instructor, personal trainer, and nutrition coach. I’ve got multiple certifications in holistic health and wellness. I’ve got a library’s worth of books on nutrition, yoga, mindset, and spiritual healing. I truly believe God gave us what we need to truly live a healthy, happy life. We just have to choose to tap into it.
I'd love to help you on your own journey! Shoot me a message and let me know how I can help.
xoxo Angela
It’s been a minute since my last blog post. Summer kind of took over and ran away with my life for a bit. But I’m back and ready to begin again after a short, but much needed, vacation.
And speaking of vacation, why not let that inspire my next blog? Read on for some trips or staying healthy while traveling and on vacation!
I will be the first to admit that staying on track while traveling and on vacation is far from the first thing on my mind. I don’t want to have to think when I’m taking a break from reality. And I love easy and simple! But I also love feeling my best and want to be able to fully enjoy my time away. So I try to choose healthy as often as possible. Here are a few ways I do that:
- Take snacks with you. Some that I find easy to grab and go, even if I’m flying, are trail mix, rice cakes, Lara bars (or another healthy fruit or granola bar), and fresh or dehydrated fruit and veggies.
- Stay in a place with a kitchen. Even if you don’t plan on cooking the whole time, you’ll want a kitchen. Trust me. You get a bigger area to store all the yummy goodness that’s going to fuel you while on vacation. And you might just find inspiration to cook a time or two.Or at the very least, have salad ingredients on hand for a healthy, throw together meal. Other healthy options to stock your kitchen with might include smoothie ingredients and oatmeal.
- Scope out healthy eats before you arrive. You can find healthy choices when eating out. You just may have to look a little harder to find them.
- Get active! Go for a hike, find other outdoor activities, take your yoga mat and find your zin, head to a gym (some places will have one included in the price!). Whatever you do, make sure you move your body. Don’t just sit and let your vacation pass you by.
- That being said, also be sure to get some much needed R&R. Grab a book, find a hammock, and just enjoy being.
I know this is far from a complete guide to healthy travel. But it’s a start. I promise just the little things above will have you feeling your best on your time away.
I’ve been practicing yoga for years now. I admittedly did not embrace it immediately. It moved way too slow for my ever racing brain. It took some time to realize that that was the exact reason I needed yoga in my life.
Over time I grew to fall in love with the practice and even became a certified instructor and yoga life coach recently. I am nowhere near a master and there are plenty of poses that are far from easy for me. But you want to know the hardest one? Savasana.
Should be easy enough, right? I mean, you just lay there. Let everything in your mind go. Yeah right. My brain does not like to settle (I may be a tad ADHD). If you’re anything like me, as soon as the yoga instructor tells you to lay on your back and relax, your mind goes into overload and you become fidgety. Just like every night when I lay down to sleep. My mind fills with all the things I should have done, the things I need to do, or things that have nothing to do with anything but just want to make an appearance. So goes the Savasana pose.
You get where I’m going. It’s hard, y’all! Stilling your mind. Allowing yourself to just be. Letting things go. Accepting where you are in the here and now. Loving yourself as you are. Ahhh, how do I do that???
So yes, the savasana pose has been the absolute hardest for me to master. I can learn to do all the twisty, bendy things. I can loosen up my muscles and joints (very slowly) and allow them to move in ways I never thought possible. Weird poses have suddenly become comfortable, resting poses.
My mind however, is a whole other story. But I’m learning, slowly but surely. It does get easier. I’m learning to allow myself to slow down and accept the here and now. I’m learning to be at peace, allowing myself to just be, and take one moment at a time. It’s a process. And one I will continue to work on every day. Because the days I allow myself to at least try, go so much smoother. I feel a peace and calmness wash over me. It’s the perfect way to reset my mind and refocus on things that need to be done. This, my friends is what yoga is all about. It can simply be summed up in the savasana (or corpse) pose.
xo Angela
PS. Need a little help and direction yourself? Schedule a quick 15 minute session and let's chat to see if my yoga life coaching is for you.
I’ve heard some say ”you’re not broken, you’re…”
To be honest, I don’t even know how that ends. Because the truth is, we’re all a little (or a lot) broken. We live this thing called life. And guess what? It’s not perfect. It can be really ugly at times. And it will break us at some point. And then watches to see how, or if we put ourselves back together.
And therein lies the beauty. We get to choose how we react to that brokenness. We get to decide if we let ourselves completely crumble and lay on the ground like poor broken Humpty Dumpty, or if we get up and piece ourselves together like beautiful broken Japanese pottery that’s been patched with gold.
We are all broken to some extent. But those cracks get filled with gold (if we allow them to be). They allow us to shine. To teach what we’ve learned through our hardships and to help others in the process. They make us relatable. Because I don’t know about you, but there is no way I could ever relate to someone who puts there life out there like it’s perfect. I don’t even trust someone who appears to live a perfect life. You know why? It doesn’t exist.
Being broken is not a bad thing. It just means we’ve been through trials. It means we’ve been knocked down and have had to find our way back up. It means we’re human and we’ve lived a little life.
It builds us. It’s part of us. It makes us who we are.
Being broken is nothing to be ashamed of. To me, it’s the exact opposite. It’s your chance to say, yeah I’ve been through this and made it out. Stronger, shinier, better, and ready to help others going through it now.
Broken isn’t shameful y’all, it’s beautiful. Embrace all your brokenness and hold your head high. You made it!
Struggling to find the beauty within the mess? I'd love to chat with you and see how I can help.
xoxo Angela
